This is for those millions of ignorant guys around the world who din't know/din't think/don't
realise the fact that a women faces a lot of inconveninces/hurtful incidents when/after she gets married...
Did you know how inconvenient it could be to move in with you and your parents after marriage?
Do you know how hard she feels the first one year when she is constantly judged by your sisters/relatives and mom?
Did you know its no easy for a girl to change her name/her gothram/her kula deivam(family gaurdian deity)? In most cases she may not want to but she just had to!
Did you know even the richest of girls do feel bad about giving away dowry in exchange to holding your hands?
Do you know she feels extremely ridiculed when you think "kitchen" is her domain and expect her to cook/clean/maintain after she comes home from work?
The worst of all is when you compare her to that "pakkatu aatu ambujam" who obeys all these unreasonable traditions and doesnt complain about anything!
So here is the deal...
If you are a married men who dint know it was hard on her...open ur mind!! After that you might realise that your wife is actually dying inside and smiling outside!!
Comfort her and make her SMILE for real!
For all those "pakkatu aatu ambujam"s who are not speaking up...Be true to yourself and others...Give back to that sister who gives a sarcasstic comment at your cooking style...If you dont speak up now, your daughter will be living in the same patriarchial/male chaunistic society!!
Unmarried guys who are reading this blog...Wake up...Or you might just be paving ways for a bitter married life!!
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